Bothered...

Ever since last night I have felt a little bothered. Last night we had two people show up at our door. I have never met either of these women. We were making small talk when one of them asked,"Is he yours or is he adopted?" I responded with "He is mine and yes he is adopted". For whatever the reason I cannot get her comment out of my head. My thoughts have been all over the place...so if he is adopted he isn't mine? I understand that some people don't feel that this question would be an issue. I guess I just never realized common sense is so scarce in the world today. There has always been an underlying issue in the world when it comes to asking appropriate questions to women in regards to having children. Every one has a different story. For some people having children comes with ease and for others it is heartbreak. I feel like I have always been pretty open with people when it comes to what Caleb and I went through to have the family we have today. I just don't think some stranger gets to ask me if he is mine or is he adopted. I am his mom no matter how you look at it.